Just a thought.

With regard to the current state of dating as a 20 something I have to say that the whole idea has become a little bit of a chore. Forget about the crazy ratio of men to women, scratch the whole overworked under socialized aspect of our lives, forgo even the cliche "where do I even go to meet good people" argument, I'm talking about the actual discourse. It's exhausting.

Just a though. Why don't we all just rest our collective nerves and really be clear about: 1. who we are and 2. what we truly want. The knowing one's self is something that has to be done on your own time, before you even think about dating, but once you get that taken care of it’s onto really deciding honestly what you want. Don't be scared, there is someone out there for everyone.

If you want a random sexual partner there are plenty of women into that, if you want a casual date when the mood hits she's out there too, and if you are seriously looking for a partner there are more women out there than you can imagine that would be ideal. My point is just that if we all just start from a place of truth and of personal freedom to want what we want when we want it without apologies the likelihood of finding a match would be a lot higher and the whole dating prospect would be a lot less taxing.